Saturday, July 12, 2014

Over the 405 and through LA, to Grandma's house we go

 From San Diego we headed North in California to go to Stockton, CA to see Dan's mom — Grandma JoAnn and Grandpa Ron. Driving through LA was an adventure all its own. We experienced a State Trooper zoom in front of us in traffic and then swerving back and forth across 4 lanes of traffic. Grandma JoAnn and Grandpa Ron knew it was a common occurrence, but for us it was horrifying. But we survived. Just shows California is wacky!

We stopped at fast food Japanese food for udon. The chicken was yummy, the beef was a bit like dirty dish rags, but more adventurous than McDonald's!

After a long drive we got to Stockton about 8pm to delicious homecooked meal. We settled in for our 4 night stay. The Leamazing Race detour choice gave Lea the choice between exploring University of the Pacific where Ron and JoAnn were married or Sacramento discovering some Gold Rush info. We'll Lea and I had both had enough of driving so the hour drive to Sacramento was ruled out. We enjoyed exploring the University of the Pacific, a beautiful small campus with a music conservatory and a tower. It got Lea talking about how she and her friend Sami could go to school there with their five dogs and two cats as they become a professional singer and a scientist respectively. Good to hear talk of being college bound, even if it contains an over-enthusiastic number of animals. Just for the record, they have decided they would each have two dogs and a cat and then share another dog. So at least they've thought it through. At the University on this day, we visited the tower and the chapel and answered some trivia about their mascot and colors and celebrated their mascot by ending the day with Tiger Ice Cream. We returned the following day to do a Girl Scout Letterbox at Pacific University and then Delta College (where JoAnn earned her degree). Neither Letterbox was as successful as the one in Chandler, AZ. Delta college's letterbox had obviously been removed because we found exactly where the directions lead and University of the Pacific was a painted tiger on the wall instead of a stamp. But walking around the Universities was a good experience.

We spent one day at the pool. Ron's son was kind enough to let us come over and swim even though his family was not home. It was a great pool (so much fun there are no photos!) They had an inflatable jet ski shaped float that had a little motor in it. In the handlebars that actually steered, there was also a water cannon controlled by a button on the handle bars. Lea LOVED the little water scooter. She fired on everyone and played "Sea Ranger" and fined me for "littering in the ocean" and I had to pick up every leaf in the pool — not possible on a windy day! They had two dogs and one got Dan to throw his big yellow toy over and over and over again. It kept them both busy. I think JoAnn would have been happy to have Dan stick with playing with the dog, because once Lea coaxed Daddy in the water, Dan's main objective seemed to be to soak his mom. A splash fight ensued and I think Dan won!

JoAnn got Dan and I tickets to the Stockton Civic Theater's production of Spamalot. She worked on sewing some costumes for the theater so she got tickets. Lea stayed with Grandma and Grandpa that night and Dan and I went and had dinner at Dave Wong's Gourmet Chinese. It was very good. The show was impressive too. Usually you have low expectations of community theaters, the leads are usually good, but they settle for the rest of the cast. I have to say everyone was quite good, no weak links. Excellent singing and tap dancing. I suppose throughout California there is talent spillover from LA so there are relatively talented civic theaters throughout the Golden State.

We were worried about Lea going to bed without us since she's been a bit unsure about staying the night anywhere lately. I sent texts to JoAnn every chance I had, at the beginning of the show and intermission to reassure Lea. I guess Lea was still pretty worried about us not being with her, but the promise of a special day with Grandma got Lea to be extra brave. It was very sweet when I got in that night (I was sleeping with Lea because the guest bed was a bit small for Dan and I) I settled in bed and Lea kind of woke up. I said "Mommy is home." She sat up and said "But I don't have any boats," obviously dreaming. Then I could see in her eyes that she kind of woke up and started to recognize me. She later said she thought I was Grandma JoAnn, but then her whole face changed as she recognized that it was mommy. Her eyes grew huge and her mouth tightened in a stifled cry and she said "I was brave!" meaning she went to sleep without us and gave me the tightest hug. It was very sweet.

The next day was Lea's special birthday day with Grandma JoAnn. Mommy was not allowed so I don't know exactly what happened, but from pictures and stories it appears they got Lea's nails done, went clothes shopping at JC Penny and Target, got one gift at Toys R Us — Lea chose Wipeout Wii game which she played as soon as we got home (tough having a present she couldn't play for two weeks! but she loves it!) — and lunch at Mimi's. They also stopped at a park where Lea got her special nickname "Spider Girl" from Grandma JoAnn. The name came when Lea was small from Lea's expert climbing on a big rope net like a spider web on the playground. I should add that this is the first time Lea got her nails done professionally. We've painted them at home, but she's never been to a nail salon so I think it will be an extra special memory for Lea to have Grandma JoAnn take her for her first mani/pedi.

While Lea and Grandma JoAnn were at their special day I searched out post cards. We found a few uninteresting basic California postcards in Walmart where we also restocked for the second half of our trip. But I passed them up because I was told Walgreens had post cards. Alas, after two Walgreens and one different Walmart, I couldn't find a single post card. By that time I was so far from the original Walmart I packed it in and fortunately had a few post cards from Spamalot to send. I certainty didn't send my usual dozen post cards. Silly place not having post cards!

Throughout our visit there were several games played. There was an ongoing game of Monopoly by Lea and JoAnn. I think Dan sat in for a bit on this ongoing game and sent JoAnn to the pour house, but the rules seemed to be interpretive when JoAnn and Lea played. I don't know that any one actually won the game of Monopoly. For all I know it is still set up waiting for another player!

We also played Tripoli, a game I loved as a kid. My grandparents used to come over and we'd all bet with pennies my parents kept in a big jar. It combines poker, gin rummy and hearts into one big game using all the cards in the deck. However the cards do need to be in order and have all 4 suits. When we stat down to play I dealt the cards from a box marked "complete" but as we began to play it was apparent that there were no red cards in the box. So obviously sorted for pinochle. So we took the second box marked "complete" and made the single deck add up to 52 cards and swore they were right. However as play began both Ron and I had a 10 of hearts. Not quite right. By now Dan was so frustrated I could practically see steam coming off of him. But we got the deck correct and played at least 5 good hands. I think Lea might have won! She got some good poker hands and was a good little bet-ter. I look forward to playing with friends when we get back to Dallas.


Fast Japanese Food on the North Side of LA
Udon beef and chicken combo with wings and dumplings.
Yoshinoya, fast Japanese food in LA
Ready for a day in Stockton with Grandma JoAnn and Grandpa Ron.
University of the Pacific
The tower at University of the Pacific

Tiger ice cream after our detour. Lea had Oreo flavor, Dan had peanut butter and I had salted caramel

Ice Cream!
On going Monopoly game with Daisy the Dog.
Fish tacos featuring Rockfish that Dan caught in San Diego
Dan enjoying his catch of the day
The great Tripoli card game



Ad for Spamalot that Dan and I saw on June 25
Spider Girl!
Lea's special birthday lunch with Grandma JoAnn at Mimi's

Lea getting her nails done
Lea getting her nails done
Letterboxing disappointment — University of the Pacific tiger on the wall
Letterboxing rest
Gifts for Lea's pre-birthday
Fancy toes! She got a design on her big toe.
Showing off her fancy nails

Cake, but not just any cake —Ice Cream cake! and what flavor ice cream, birthday cake flavored ice cream.  That's just craziness!
"No Grandpa, its not a 6, you're looking at it upside down!"
Happy pre-birthday girl with happy Grandma
Look at those ribbons of sugar, I mean flavor.
Blue tongues all around
Lea and Daisy ready for their walk. Exactly who walked who is undetermined.


Mom: No, Lea you can't play ipad, its our last night with Grandma and Grandpa. Go see what they're doing and join them — Oh.
Obligatory bubble photos in JoAnn's beautiful backyard
Leaping for joy that we are at Grandma's
Grandma and Lea ready to make bubbles
Look at that laugh. It just lights up the whole backyard!

Wednesday, July 09, 2014

San Diego: Because after all that desert, there had better be an ocean

San Diego was perhaps the most anticipated part of the trip for me. Visiting with family has been great and certainly the best part. However, as I've always said about the desert (which I didn't think I'd actually ever drive through) after all that sand there had better be an ocean at the end and lo and behold — the Pacific. We got in about 4pm and settled in. After what felt like an eternity to Lea and slightly less to me we headed to the pool while Dan handled some Daddy things (getting his phone straightened out after dipping it in the hot tub in Vegas). The pool was a bit chilly, but the ocean was down right frigid. Also lined with seaweed. We still went out in the waves. In the Neal fashion, we never swam in the heat of the day and we never ate further than two blocks from our hotel. All the fine dining options in SoCal and we ate at the same Taco stand two nights in a row. We just couldn't stand to leave the beach. 

The first night I forgot my camera (a true testament to how excited I was to be at the beach). So there are no pictures of Dan. Lea and I splashing in the waves. There is no picture of the food shack called Dan's Burgers that was NEVER open. It's windows were open and a sign was perched next to the ordering station the first night that said "Back at 7:20" — well, it was 7pm. We pondered the business decision to close at dinner time. But it worked out. We ate at the taco shack across the courtyard from Dan's and the first night I had a much anticipated fish taco (fish was good, but I didn't like the sauce because I don't like tartar sauce) and the next night I had a burrito California style — Now why may I ask is the famous food from this part of the country a fish taco when they are serving burritos California style? I had one at the zoo and one at our taco shack. What is California style you may ask? Kale? Wheat Grass? Even avocado maybe? No. FRENCH FRIES AND CHEESE SAUCE IN THE BURRITO! Why has this not swept the country? It was delicous! This fish taco conundrum is what gives Califorina a bad wrap — that and $4.50 gas! The next night Dan (my Dan, not the mysterious burger guy) went on a fishing boat at 5:30 so Lea and I were on our own for dinner and she requested the same taco shack. Dan's burgers was all boarded up, not even the pretense of a future open time. 

The water in San Diego was cold, but nothing compared to the air after dark. San Diego certainly makes its money selling sweat shirts to unsuspecting tourist who expect the beach in the middle of June to be warm day AND night. I am surprised at how much of this country lives its life under 90 degrees. I thought everyplace was hot in the summer. Minnesota gets hot and Texas gets hot so I figured that was a fair sampling of the country. The West is much cooler than I expected. 

So we swam, we froze, we dodged giant seaweed forests crashing in the waves and we ate tacos and nachos. 

The next day we headed out to the famous San Diego Zoo. That's how they announce it at the ticket desk, the train and signs: the famous San Diego zoo. I don't argue. I admit I've been dreaming of the San Diego zoo since I saw Jack Hannah's predecessor on the Johnny Carson show when I was Lea's age. It was just odd for them to remind us they were famous. The zoo was pretty amazing. A lot of walking, but bears, bears and more bears. Polar, Sun, Brown, Black and Koala. They had Panda bears but we waited until the end of our trip and couldn't spend 45 minutes in line to see them and Dan make his fishing boat and Lea and I make church. We'd seen a lot.

We headed back to the hotel and Dan dropped us off about 10 blocks from our hotel to go to church and walk back (swim suits under our dresses) and he headed off to his boat.Dan caught 4 rock fish about 8 to 12 inches (which we ate at his mom's and they were delicious). Lea and I had a surf skipping, seaweed flinging, burrito eating walk back to our hotel.

The next morning we packed up and ate on the beach again at a very yummy beach stand. Then we started to leave, but stopped by Seal Rock (not convenient btw). On the drive out through La Jolla On the road we had, a Rolls Royce behind, and. Lincoln, Lexus and Mercedes around us. Even the Home Health care vehicle was a Fiat.  


Surfer hotel. Right on the beach, just cross the sidewalk.

A view of the pool and the ocean.
Breakfast before the zoo. Playing Go-fish-sugar-packet edition. Played across the country, invented in Vegas with the cousins.
Orientation as we start the zoo visit.
Lea guiding us to the Polar bears.
Polar bears!
Lots of statues and things to read before we actually got to the polar bears.
Finally, polar bears. Three in the enclosure: one playing, one swimming, one resting in the shade.
Arctic fox. I told Lea to lean her head into the photo and got this cute literal interpretation.
OH MY GOSH! Mommy on the sky gondola. It wasn't the worst thing, but I had a very tight grip on that center pole. 
Family selfie way above the San Diego zoo.
Dipping Dots ice cream after a California style burrito.
bus tour to see much of what we had walked 3 hours to see.
Bus tour
Bears from the bus tour. We saw grizzly and black bears saw well as sun, polar and koala bears. 
Baby giraffe a week old.
More family photos. The person I asked to take this was not clear that I wanted the sign next to us, not just a family portrait next to the bathrooms.

From here dan went fishing and Lea and I went to church and walked back to the hotel along the beach.
Mission beach pier
Beach
Walking in the surf, more friendly people taking our photo. These people offered instead of being guilted into service.
LOTS of seaweed at mission beach. huge clumps of seaweed floating in the waves. Lea got caught up in it once and got a bit freaked out. It did not stop her from wanting to go back in.
Sunset on the beach.
Burrito California style (French fries and cheese sauce!)
This is our dining choices in the morning. Ice cream/sno cones, El Gordo taco stand and the ever-closed Dan's burgers.
Lea flinging sand. She enjoys trying to fill the ocean back up, or dig a new one.
SAN DIEGO!
At sunset
Lea's hole she dug. She called it her dam and was disappointed the surf did not come up to it to fill it up. She did try to fill it up one bucket at a time.
Sand!
Pool before bed.
It was a bit chilly.

Pool. It was supposed to close at 9 but that was not well enforced.
For breakfast the morning we left, Lea and I went into the ocean one last time. Then breakfast we couldn't tear ourselves away from the beach. This place was right out side the beach access door to our hotel.
Our waiter took our photo. Mancakes (pancakes with sausage) and Lea had donut holes and cocoa (I think I made her eat an egg too)
Nothing left of yummy breakfast
A quick stop at Seal Rock before we left San Diego
Actual seals, on Seal Rock